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Hello,
thanks to everyone again for the comments and thoughts. It helps just to read them.
I have been taking baby steps to try and bring up a few things hear and there to see if there is any success. Some have been disasters, In a fit of some kind of rage i was accused of stopping her from doing what she wanted to do, for example going to the gym. Although i actuvely encourage her to go as i know she enjoys it. It appears to stem from guilt for not going. I waited a few days and mentioned what she had accused me of, she denied ever saying it.
The latest development seems to be her wanting to dump me as she thinks i am somehow responsible for her feeling down. She gets incredicly critical of me and can be increasingly cruel, but then it passes and the lovely her is back and no mention of me being dumped.
During the moods (as i call them) If i stay away i dont care, if i stay with her i am to blame. I now try and stay close enough that if she wants me i am there and at the same time she cant accuse me of sufficating her.
Sorry this message may make little sense, i am babbling as thoughts come to me.
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