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sherwin09 - October 17th, 2009 12:24 AM

i've been suspecting my wife is using birth control pills. i come to this idea when she mentioned one time that she doesn't want to have baby. my question is, how do i know if she's taking pills?

mitch - October 17th, 2009 1:12 AM

there's no way you will know about it. why don't you just ask her?

ara - October 24th, 2009 12:41 AM

i agree, talk to your wife. if you trust her enough then i don't think you should still insist that she's been using pills.

joshua - October 24th, 2009 12:43 AM

trust your wife but trust more on your instincts... hehehe... it's based on my experienced...

Jasper_Jose - October 29th, 2009 3:39 AM

If your wife doesn't want to have a baby, respect her decision.Maybe she's not ready yet..You're asking how will you know if she's taking pills? Simply ask her.There's nothing wrong in asking, but do it in a nice way as if your not suspecting her.

liz - October 30th, 2009 11:01 AM

i wanted to ask her but i'm too afraid she might lie to me. i don't want to break my trust with her. i heard that taking pills decreases sex drive and i noticed it with her too... please spare me some advice...

shantylle - October 31st, 2009 4:48 AM

if you are doubting your wife then try to secretly check your medicine kit if you can find some pills...^^

ciara - October 31st, 2009 4:52 AM

haven't you talk to your wife about having a baby?why not talking to her about this before going to bed at night?i have a question..do u want to have a baby?

cez - October 31st, 2009 4:54 AM

hi!if you want to have a baby explain to her what you really want and ask her opinion about having a baby...

floramay - October 31st, 2009 4:56 AM

if she doesn't want to have a baby as of the moment then try to come up with a decision when to have a baby...what do u think?:)

jovz - October 31st, 2009 5:00 AM

i agree with floramay...it's the best thing to agree because in the first place it's not easy to have a baby....

jake - October 31st, 2009 5:02 AM

how long have you been married???have you had kids?

sherwin09 - October 31st, 2009 5:04 AM

we've been married for a year..and i'm already 30 and she's 28...

cindel - October 31st, 2009 5:06 AM

do you wantto have a baby now???don't you think you need a year more to enjoy both your lives?

sherwin09 - October 31st, 2009 5:08 AM

i think we are old enough to have a baby..i'm sure we can raise the baby because we both work..and we are not getting any younger..i'll get older and my child is still young..

elly - October 31st, 2009 5:18 AM

then, if that's what you want better to talk to your wife about it...surely, she can understand..and i guess she doesn't want to hurry things.she might want to really plan it and wait for the right time...don't doubt her...

hale - November 2nd, 2009 9:55 PM

i think you guys need to have a heart to heart talk.have you tried and ask her why she doesn't want to have a baby?

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