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mdh1409@gmail.com - December 13th, 2009 10:42 PM

I think i only truly got over my first miscarriage by getting pregnant again, i felt amazing and happy again.... 6 weeks later i miscarried once again, i was devastated and still am, i was a mess, didn't think i could get through it.

I felt bad things kept happening, then i found out a close friend of mine was pregnant, i felt sick in the stomach, i didnt know what to feel, i was an absolute wreck and just couldn't believe it.

I feel a bit resentful towards her which i hate. I know i need to concentrate now on me and my husband. I really just need some strategies to help move on, if anyone has ideas that would be helpful, Melissa

Hoklner_wise - December 14th, 2009 12:13 AM

I've had same experience in a year and it was indeed frustrating and I also felt envious of others who got a healthy pregnancy. Not a very easy situation and there is nothing we can do. We can't avoid feeling indifferent to them. Hope you'll be fine soon.

kaireen - December 15th, 2009 10:32 AM

That would really hurt because you are against yourself for feeling like that. Especially that it is your close friend who expects that you will be happy for her.

Amanda - December 16th, 2009 10:32 AM

I've been to such stage also but I know and understand why I felt that way. You should be happy for your friend and just accept that you had a loss and everything will just follow.

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