Yes that is the best statement Kisses.

I'm sorry for your loss honeydee, it looks like you are still in the process of recovering.

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Yes, I am still trying to recover and the best way is to understand all the possible reasons for the loss. I've realized that I am not the only one who suffers from it and there are even others who have a worse case than mine.

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Yeah it is sometimes helpful if we can compare our situation with that of other's and realize how lucky we are.

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Hope you are fine now Honeydee.

lennie- comparing our situation is a good strategy to make us feel better but to the extent of showing it to the person who has a worse case that ours. It should be done in silent.

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acceptance for me is a learning process. i just have to learn and understand the situation and the causes then i will learn to accept the loss and move on.

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SassyMom-Yes of course, you don't have to tell it to their face that she has a worse situation. You should even support and comfort her.

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Accepting my loss is really hard. Even now I still can't fully accept the loss of my baby. I know I should have understood it but deep inside I refuse to accept that I deserve such loss.

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at present i have learned to accept what happened and am willing to give it another try. it is never easy reaching this state no matter how fast or slow the recovery is.

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I lost my baby at 10 weeks at went I am still grieving. I ask tons of questions, why me? why now? I have two healthy kids, they are very independent now, so I wish to become mom just one more time. Every time I see new moms, I cry right away. Hope this will stop soon and I be ready to be pregnant again!

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I have just been pointed in the direction of this forum and have found great confort. I don't yet feel ready to accept my loss as it is so fresh,only a couple of days ago. I keep asking why us but i'm sure with time i will have grieved enough and life will continue. I can't ever forget though

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