sorry to hear that almond...star but you should be informed especially if it is something serious and important. you can't go on with life being blinded by the reality. at least through that you can plan and exert your effort with other things that would matter instead of dwelling with a false hope.

I can't also imagine myself on how to react if I am given the fact that I can't permanently have a baby. I think I would feel the same way as you almond...star. I am praying for you.

The truth would really hurt. If I were to choose I think I would prefer same as Almond...STAR not be informed. On the other hand I was thinking that it would be like lying to myself, maybe when the right time comes when I am ready to accept it.

not being informed would be a torture for me. i don't believe that what you don't know won't hurt you. once you have known that truth it would hurt twice as much.

Well you are right annabelle, maybe it will depend on how we see it. Having to know the truth no matter when is still the same pain, so prolonging the agony is not helpful.

This is a complete opposite of the kind of personality I have. I don't want to be the last to know especially if it concerns me. What's the use of still believing if there is no more hope. We just have to be practical and mature enough when it comes to serious situations like this one.