In August, I found myself pregnant 7months into our relationship. I mc 2days later at 4.5wks. We already knew we wanted our future together, but he just wasn't ready to be a dad yet. The weekend it happened, he held me and let me cry it out, and promised we'd try again when we were ready. After this, he didn't seem to want me around much, and suddenly needed space to decide if us was what he really wanted. During the month after, he was very distant with me, and is finally taking his space. With him, anything that pushes our relationship forward faster than he's ready, he'll 'run away' emotionally into his man-cave. I needed him so much, and he wasn't there. Is this normal behaviour for him? He longs for a family very much, and it was his first, my second. I'm totally lost, I'm hurting so much over our loss, I don't know how to think about anything else. Thank you.

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