Getting Used to it!!!

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10 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 2nd, 2009 8:30 AM by merci_rey

dorriesmith - October 6th, 2009 9:41 PM

hi everyone, good looking forum here!

I had several miscarriages for I have fibroids in my uterus and it is very difficult to conceive and if I do conceive it will just miscarry. I in a way have accepted such situation but is still trying until I may succeed. I have considered some treatments but it is too risky. I might not be able to get pregnant. I somewhat got used to it and is getting familiar with the experience that sometimes it doesn't affect me much.

Nannywiz - October 6th, 2009 11:12 PM

I think it is normal or expected that being used to the experience of loss may happen. It would tend to make us numb about it. I certainly understand mothers like you dorrie.

Lipstick - October 7th, 2009 9:42 AM

That sounds a little sad to me. I am thinking why keep on conceiving when you think you are not yet capable? I mean try to achieve full treatment first before getting pregnant so as no have more mc.

dorriesmith - October 7th, 2009 10:52 AM

Lipstick- yeah you got a point there but what can I do about it? I think I am ready to get pregnant, well I am always ready to be pregnant.

MoM - October 7th, 2009 11:36 PM

I think what Lipstick is trying to say is to consult first your doctor and ask for some treatment before trying to conceive. I know being ready is simple and easy but try to check what are the possibilities that may happen.

tiny - October 12th, 2009 7:29 PM

I don't think I can ever get use to having miscarriage. I m such an emotional person and would feel for every loss. Even if I will have several miscarriages I still don't think I can just accept it that easy. No never!

HOPE - November 26th, 2009 9:08 PM

THIS MAY APPLY TO MOTHERS WHO HAVE BECOME NUMB OF THE SITUATION. IT MAY SOUND IMPROPER BUT IT IS THE REALITY.

HEAVENKNOWS - November 26th, 2009 11:09 PM

Some may come to this point. It should be ok because we can't just dwell on sad thing for all time.

Sally - December 1st, 2009 8:09 AM

I can relate to this. Especially that having some chromosomal abnormality is very common and often unavoidable.

cRoWdEdRoOm - December 1st, 2009 10:06 AM

I don't believe that there is no effect whatsoever to the mother and just say she is getting used to it. A mother has always that pain inside whether it happened so often.

merci_rey - December 2nd, 2009 8:30 AM

it is a little sad to hear that some moms get a little numb about the issue. on the other hand it is really possible to happen because of too much pain especially if it happens over and over again.