Yeah, we are not that transparent when it comes to emotional matters. Of course we feel the loss and it is not easy for us.

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VERY TRUE ALFRED, MEN ARE NOT REALLY EMOTIONAL BUT WE UNDERSTAND THAT THE FEELING THAT MOTHER'S FELT ARE SIMILAR TO THE FATHER'S LONGING FOR THE LOSS. WE JUST HAVE TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER.

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MY WIFE MISCARRIED OUR SECOND BABY YESTERDAY BECAUSE SHE SLIP OFF OUR BATHROOM. SHE IS ON HER 13TH WEEK. I WAS AT THE OFFICE WHEN SHE WAS RUSHED TO THE HOSPITAL AND THE DOCTOR SAID THAT IT WAS A BIG IMPACT THAT MADE HER TO MISCARRY OUR BABY. I WAS SO DISAPPOINTED AND I DON'T KNOW WHO'S TO BLAME. IF I SHOULD GET ANGRY AT HER OR WHAT. IT IS REALLY DEPRESSING!

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That is a difficult situation you have there Marlon33. I guess there is no one to blame. I'm sure your wife has no intention of losing your baby. You have to talk it over.

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Marlon33-I understand that you can't help blaming your wife for not being careful but it is not her fault. You need to be there for her and get through the struggle together. Try to be as patient and understanding to help her and yourself too.

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Accidents may happen and whether it is avoidable or not there should be no blaming. I know it is hard to do but I'm sure no mother will be so careless about her being pregnant.

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Well my husband is very supportive and I know and I let him grieve also with me. We know we can have our baby in time.

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I'm glad to have this thread. At least this forum can cater to all who are affected by the loss.

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Yeah, very helpful and flexible to all.

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Yeah, at least we also give importance to their feelings.

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