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How would you feel?

6 posts on this thread and the last post was on October 19th, 2009 6:08 PM by Mae Param

LotsOfLove - September 30th, 2009 7:10 PM

After having a miscarriage, I felt a little envious for mothers who are carrying their babies in their arms. I feel a little bitter and asked myself why they are being given the chance and I'm not? Have you experienced such feeling? Is it normal or it is just me?

hiejron - October 1st, 2009 6:03 PM

If I don't have any children before I've experience the loss then maybe I would feel the same. I think it is normal to feel that way.

saturn - October 2nd, 2009 11:38 PM

Well, that is very common to feel bitter and jealous. We are just humans and we can't control our emotions. It's not you LotsOfLove, feel better. You've got lots of love... hehehe...LOL:)

Hoklner_wise - October 3rd, 2009 6:37 AM

It is normal but we have to think that it has a purpose and we should be happy for others who made it because it is meant to be. I admit I do experienced such bitterness but as time passed I've realized that it is bound to happen and the best is yet to come.

Naomi - October 7th, 2009 11:04 AM

Never felt bitter about it. I think it is normal though but I also think that it can be controlled and such feeling is not really difficult avoid.

LotsOfLove - October 18th, 2009 3:50 AM

saturn- hehe... funny... yeah I want to always have a lot of love but sometimes can't avoid being bitter of feel jealous for other mothers carrying their baby. I often imagine or dream myself having a baby and it makes me feel lonely.

Mae Param - October 19th, 2009 6:08 PM

I think it won't help if you keep feeling that way. It will only isolate you to the possibility of having a baby. Sometimes feelings make us a prisoner of our fear or worries. Try to take that away from you and move on.