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ataglance - November 19th, 2009 5:17 AM

She met them on internet dating sites. She had sex with them pretty quickly, within a few weeks of meeting them. She is not setting out to just sleep with them, I think she would like a relationship and even marriage (never married).

Dallasfan - November 19th, 2009 5:24 AM

If she did start having a relationship with these guys, she would have to tell them "after the fact that they have been intimate" and how would they feel then?

Oblivion - November 19th, 2009 5:25 AM

Betrayed I'm sure.

erza - November 20th, 2009 7:39 PM

The thing is that these relationships don't last that long - 1 or 2 months at the most.

ataglance - November 20th, 2009 7:59 PM

I am having trouble staying friends with her knowing that she is doing this. I thought she was more responsible than this. If she is lying to them abt this, what is she lying to me about?

wearajimmy - November 20th, 2009 8:00 PM

There are Herpe Hook Up web sites, she could troll those rather that Web Slut sites.

revan_delacroix - November 20th, 2009 8:01 PM

good advice :)

wearajimmy - November 20th, 2009 8:04 PM

hahha thanks. all folks on the Herpes Site are looking for herpe love, and if she contained her behavior with them & not spread her disease around.

ginger - November 20th, 2009 8:08 PM

well this could avoid potential law suits, and a traumatic brain injury.

wearajimmy - November 20th, 2009 8:08 PM

My opinion of your friend is very very very low,, sorry

CCoi - November 20th, 2009 8:22 PM

cmon jimmy. get over yourself!! Yes us older folks still have sex - TONS OF IT. You don't stop being a sexual being just because you turn 30 or something!

ifile - November 21st, 2009 1:07 AM

The thought of having sex with an older woman might turn your stomach but really do you need to put it out there the way you did?

primecast - November 21st, 2009 3:52 AM

Talk to your friend about how she's not respecting herself with her behavior. It's not that she's out there spreading hsv2 to every man she's sleeping with - it's just that she's really selling herself short by thinking that if she's honest with them that they'd never sleep with her. They really will.

wars - November 21st, 2009 3:54 AM

She is so much more than just sex - she's also a wonderful person who someone will want to be with because of who she is - not run the other way just because of a pesky and very common virus that she has.

miss_em - November 21st, 2009 4:08 AM

It's really not the deal breaker she thinks it is.

sweetie - November 21st, 2009 4:14 AM

It doesn't even have to change her basic behavior - if she's more satisfied with short term sexual relationships that's fine but she needs to be thinking about her own protection as well as her partners.

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