have kinda the same prob. I actually start to bleed when I go #2 sometimes, so anal is quite painful and not enjoyable for me at all, However, i find enjoyment out of knowing my bf likes it.

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I have not tried this yet, but at adult novelty stores there is such a thing as an anal numbing agent.

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Foreplay also helps, ALOT!

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it may sound gross, but ask him if he'd be able to go down on you, there. if not, have him finger you, while massaging your *** with a thumb and slowly loosing it up.

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While lick-it and stick-it may work for vag sex, it def doesn't for anal.

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If you're getting hemorrhoids though, I don't know what to suggest because that is something you'll need surgery down the road to remove..

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its not good to go untreated. So it may just not be safe for you to do so.

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if the problem is that is penis is very very big and very hard, stimulate him even to the ejaculation and in the next time he will be more softer and it doesn't hurt so much.

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cab713 ur idea does not apply on certain men. right after ejaculation, it is either not erect or hard for some

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yeah i forgot to say that next time will be like 20 minutes later after the first ejaculation.

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