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1babybabyoh - December 26

I lost my baby the day after Thanksgiving. I didn't even know i was pregnant, I was only 4 maybe up to 6 wks along. My steady bf had broken up w me a wk n a half before and I decided to get away, so I went to visit my younger sister at college over Thanksgiving. I was really hurt by the break up and didn't tell him where I was going and led him to believe I may have taken my life. When I got back he was immensly angry at me and I couldn't tell him about the miscarriage. It feels like everything we had, all our love, has literally gone down the drain. With the holidays it's made it harder b/c even w my family around I feel left out. My one sister has alienated me and I feel the rest of my family has taken her side. I still haven't told my ex, although I don't think he's As mad anymore, so i'm dealing w this miscarriage alone b/c i feel he should be the first one I tell and I don't particularly have a best friend. Dealing w this alone is becoming very overwhelming and i'm not sure whethe I should forge ahead and try telling my ex or whether I should try to wait. The reason I don't want to tell him when he's mad is b/c despite the fact that he is my ex, I need some kind of support from him and I know he won't be able to offer that if he's mad at me. Another thing that's making it harder is my brother and his gf just told us they're having a baby, so our babies would've only been a few wks apart. Any thought or advice on this would be of help.

 

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