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How can I help my partner who had a miscarriage at 8 weeks?
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Canton - May 26

My partner suffered a miscarriage two days ago at 8 weeks - It was a pregnancy that neither one of us knew about or had planned - but without a doubt the shock of it has hit us incredibly hard.
My partner is crying a lot, blaming herself and I worry this could lead to depression - I know Im a guy and shouldnt be on this forum really but if any of you have any suggestions as to how I might be able to help her, please, please write back to this. Im finding this all incredibly hard myself but I havent showed much of this to her - If Im feeling bad I can only imagine what she's going through. Thank you for reading this

 

Harmonie4 - May 29

Hi,
Whilst it's hard as a woman carrying and then subsequently losing a child it is equally painful for our partners...As to telling you what to do thts also hard...You too are grieving so you must also share this with your partner..we to want to know that you're grieving just like us..Just holding us tight and telling us we'll get through this together helps with the healing process...

I too was told that I'd suffered a missed miscarriage when I was 10+6 on 6th May...Whilst I am healing physically, mentally I have my good & bad days & my partner is trying to do all possible to help but just knowing that he is there by my side supporting me is all I need right now...reasure your partner & tell her that you're in this together no matter what is always a gr8t start...allow her to grieve as much as she needs to and keep telling her that she's not to blame as nothing she could have done wld have prevented this lose, unfortunately...

Hope this helps...take care

 

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