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Emz10 - July 5

I miscarried on 20th June and I just can't seem to get a grip at the moment, I haven't really talked to anyone, I have a complicated relationship with my partner and we haven't really talked either. It was an unplanned pregnancy but once I'd got over the immediate shock I was over the moon, started making plans and was excited at the future ahead and now I just feel like it's all gone and I can't quite come to terms with it.

I'm worried about my relationship, I don't think my boyfriend will want to try again so I'm scared to talk to him about it. I'm worried about work too, I just can't concentrate on anything for long enough, I keep making mistakes and missing deadlines. I can't stop thinking about what could have been, i don't know what I can do to help myself.

The next few weeks I just can't contemplate really, my sister (my rock) is going on honeymoon for 4 weeks, my boyfriend is going on holiday with his two daughters for three weeks at the same time and my best friend has the most beautiful baby girl but I just can't stand seeing her.

I keep crying at random things and I can't even remember what sets me off, then I'll just be sat staring into space for god knows how long. I'm tired but I just can't sleep and when I do I keep waking up, I feel exhausted. Some days I've been ok and it frustrates me that I can't be ok, I don't know how to get there, I don't know how to get over this and move on, I just know that I can't carry on not being able to function properly but I don't know what to do.

 

katie123 - July 13

I found out on sat I have miscarried at 10wks, my second miscarriage. It was my birthday and also my due date of the baby I lost earlier in the year. It is the most horrendous feeling of grief and that your just a total failure a feeling only someone who has been through it knows. You make all these plans and think of names and its just snatched away. It seems at the moment every Tom dick and harry are pregnant and i have the most the awful thoughts that i wish would happen to them, which i hate myself for. It's good to know you are not alone, I was amazed just how many of my friends have been through it and I never knew. It does get easier memories fade and I am sure you will try again. You should talk to your partner, you won't be happy if you want different things. Hope you feel better soon

 

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