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Miscarriages
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Gugulethu35 - March 31

Hi all. I am glad I found this forum. I hope it will do me some healing.

I've had two concurrent miscarriages and I feel as though I have tried my bit and it's time I've accepted that I will never have any kids. Whenever I think about it, i get so hurt. My partner wants kids, I wanted kids, but having to go through so much pain has left me scared of trying again. I dont know what to do. Please help.

 

chael - April 1

hi there Gugulethu35

I know exactly where you are coming from, I have been through a 19 week loss and an ectopic in the past 3 years, and i have all but given up hope that i will ever have kids. me and my fiance want children so badly, it actually physically hurts when my friends announce they are pregnant with their 2nd, 3rd or even 4th child, where we havent even been blessed with one. i put on my happy face and tell them i am over the moon for them, then go home and cry for days.

The pain you go through with a loss of a child is devastating, but personally, my want for a child is stronger than that feeling off the loss. i'm still not over my ectopic which was in august last year, and would have been due anytime now, but i know i'll be ready again soon to try again, and i'm sure you will too.

i come on here most days for a nosey, new to this site though, but always happy to chat about anything :)

 

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