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PREGNANCY LOSS
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WILLIV - October 14

hi,ive just been for an early scan where i was told there was no heatbeat,i was 8 weeks,but they never told me when the baby actually died or explained anything to me really,i feel so confused,angry,sad and feel no one understands or cares,i dont know whether to have a d+c or tablets, what do you think i the easiest option if any,im scared because im 38 now,and might not have time to have another baby again.

 

lou2010 - October 14

I am sorry to hear your news. When I had my miscarriage I had to go to A & E as I was passing the baby myself. The doctor took out all she could but I had to wait until the afternoon the next day for a scan to make sure there was nothing left. It was a horrible wait for the scan but I didn't need any further treatment. If there was something left I would have had to have a d&c. I was about 6 weeks at the time. It was a very scary and upsetting time so I know how you are feeling. I would suggest you have the d&c for two reasons firstly if the tablets don't clear everything out then you will have to have a d&c anyway and secondly I was in pain when I was losing and its not a nice process. I think much better for you emotionally and physically to go for the d&c. hope this helps and you are ok x

 

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