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Recurrent miscarriages
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Needstotalk - March 1

Hi I have suffered through three miscarriages and feel close to a emotional breakdown. I have kept it together mostly up until now but I don't know if I can continue to be strong.
I am undergoing tests to try a find a cause although it is highly likely that I will never know why I miscarry early on in the pregnancy.
Family and friends have been great although if I hear 'it will happen next time' I will scream!!!!
Many of my friends have had children in the time I have been trying and I swing from being happy for them to being insanely jealous.

 

chida003 - March 14

I understand your feeling because i am there too...I lost a pregnancy a year ago and my sister in law was also pregnant by the same time so everytime I see her baby i just remember mine and I just want to cry because I am so jealous but most of the time i am happy about it. Yesterday I had my second miscarriage on this year but this one was the hardest one of all because i could actually feel everything that was going through inside of me and how the earth was pulling my baby out of me.My sister in law is pregnant again and she doesn't even want it, so my nightmare will be haunting me again once this baby is born...My partner and I decided we weren't trying to have a baby anymore for at least 2 years because I really need to get over all this...if I miscarriage again I won't be able to handle it...This is so horrible, I am so lost and plus that everyone around me keep saying that this was for the best since I am only 21 and I haven't finished college yet and I just want to scream to the world that my heart is so broken.

 

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