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the GUILT
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Amanda - December 16

I've read so much about being guilty about the loss but I don't think we have to feel that way. We all are struggling and wanted the baby so much but it happened so why do we feel guilty?

 

jackie_ruiz - December 16

I am not sure but maybe because I should have done less work and rest. Avoiding myself from stress or the like.

 

VANESSA - December 17

FEELING GUILTY MAY BE VERY STRESSFUL BUT I KNOW WE CAN'T AVOID IT ESPECIALLY FOR MOTHERS WHO EXPERIENCE LOSS FOR THE FIRST TIME. WE JUST HAVE TO LET IT BE AND SOONER OR LATER WE'LL GET OVER IT.

 

SuReBabY - December 18

This is very observed with mothers who are not prepared or was not expecting such to happen.

 

--cristy-- - December 20

for me sometimes being guilty is just a product of thinking so hard, psychological effect. we often think that this should be done instead of this, so at the end we feel guilty of what happen.

 

JaneGirl - December 20

Well could be a possible cause of the guilt --cristy--. We often have the tendency of owning all the responsibility for the loss.

 

GeraldineFitcher - December 20

This usually being experienced by mothers who experienced it the first time. Maybe it is normal to feel that way since we are carrying the baby and it should be our responsibility but not to the extent of punishing ourselves for it.

 

MoM - December 20

It will depend on the reason most likely plus the people around may also contribute to such guilt feeling.

 

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